Mother Hearts

I am feeling very blessed by all of the women in this community tonight. It may be our grief that unites us but it is our mothering hearts that make our community so incredibly supportive and healing. May you all find light in the darkness wherever you are in this world.

Today I was graced by the presence of some wonderful mother’s from the baby loss and infertility community. After many technical difficulties we were finally able to come together and speak aloud about what it is like to go through Mother’s Day as a mother who grieves for her babies or for her fertility. You can watch the chat through this youtube video. Please excuse the first few minutes. A special thanks to Jonathan the Director of The STILL Project for coming to my aid to help me host the hangout from behind the scenes.

17,000 Pure Spirits

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On Monday night as I stepped barefoot into the sand of our beautiful beach, my youngest daughter who I was carrying at the time, wrapped her arms around my neck and kissed me on the cheek. “Love you Mama”  she spoke quietly to me. My goodness she is so beautiful. We named her Ocea after [...]

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Thank You

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I spent the last sunset of 2012 swimming in the ocean with my family and good friends. It was beautiful, cleansing, refreshing, healing. I thought about all of the blessings in my life. I want to take this moment to thank everyone for their love, support and encouragement over the past year. I feel truly [...]

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Broken

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I’m so broken today. Like the rest of Australia, I woke to the news of the children and people whose lives were taken from them in Connecticut this morning. I weep as I imagine the terror that these little innocent souls would have faced. I imagine them calling for their mamas to rescue them and [...]

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The Prayer Flag Albums

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Over the next few weeks I will be photographing over 350 prayer flags at Christian’s Beach. Because there are so many flags, to make it easier for everyone to find their photos I am going to make alphabetical albums. There will be a few extra albums for unnamed babies and flags that have multiple names [...]

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The Ceremony

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{My prayer flag for Christian along with all the stories that came with each prayer flag from around the world} Before I head off for the weekend I wanted to share an update on the ceremony we had last Sunday. It all went beautifully. We had around 150 people come to share the evening with [...]

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We Love Them. We Remember Them. Always.

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Booklet Submissions Now Closed.     To honour all of the babies and children gone to soon my girlfriends and I at Luminous Light are holding a Iluminated Light ceremony at Sorrento Beach Community Hall on October 14th. We will be lighting candles, reading poetry, releasing balloons and there will also be a tribute film [...]

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Luminous Light’s Baby and Child Loss Remembrance Ceremony – This Sunday

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The girls and I at Luminous Light would like to welcome you to come and join us this Sunday to remember the lives of all the babies and children that have left us too soon. This year we will be holding a candle light service and at the end of the ceremony we will be [...]

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Capture Your Grief this October 2012 for Pregnancy & Infant Loss Awareness Month

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This October for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, I’m hosting CAPTURE YOUR GRIEF 2012. If you have experienced the death of your baby/ies/child/ren, this project is designed just for you! It doesn’t matter whether you are only a week into this walk or you have been walking this road for 20 years, all are [...]

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October 15th Beach Prayer Flag Project

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Please note that submissions for this project have now closed. If you missed out on submitting a prayer flag to us in memory of your babies and children you can still have their names included at our ceremony. We will be letting everyone know on my facebook page about this on Monday October 8th so [...]

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Fertility and Peace Mama Altar

FertilityAltarCarlyMarie

We will never have another baby. I’m done. He’s done. We’re done. All up I have carried 6 babies in my womb. We got to hold 4. We got to keep 3. I will be honest in saying that I am relieved I never have to go through the experience of trying to conceive and [...]

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Capture Your Grief – October 2012, 31 Photographs

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This October for Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness Month, I’m hosting a gorgeous new project! It will be called “CAPTURE YOUR GRIEF”. If you have experienced the death of your baby/ies/child/ren then this project is designed just for you! It doesn’t matter whether you are only a week into this walk or you have been [...]

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All our love and peace…

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Our deepest sympathy and peace to the families and friends of all the loved ones whose lives were cut short on July 20th, 2012 in Aurora, Colorado USA. Wishing those left injured much much love and strength. With love, Carly and Sam Dudley

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Remember the gift, not the glory

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A couple of years ago my girlfriends and I created a friendship group here in Perth called Luminous Light. It is open to anyone in Perth who has been affected by the loss of a baby or child from conception up until, well actually we have not put an age limit on it but you [...]

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Memory Boxes

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When we left the hospital Sam carried my bags and pillow for me. I should have been carrying our baby. But he stayed there at the hospital. Without us. We left our beautiful baby at the hospital where his little body was later burned down to ashes. Leaving the hospital without your baby is an [...]

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